Everything you want is on the other side of fear – Jack Canfield. Anything that’s extra-ordinary gets done outside our comfort zone. Transcending the fear – surpassing the limits set by rationality and logic – Emotive urge (alone) helps us do that. Am I drawing-upon my emotional intelligence enough, to go where I want to […]
We get what we seek. We get what we look for. One may call it passion, vision, dream, persistence, resolve, tenacity, perseverance, grit, commitment… Simply put, we get what we seek.
Nobody ever got muscles by watching me lift the weights – Arnold Schwarzenegger Doing – that’s what really matters. Knowing is one thing. Being aware is another. It’s about bringing-in awareness – that influences the actions. A Coach could help…
Language and vocabulary that we use makes a difference. A significant one at that. Positive language that I employ results in positive mind-set (inside), leads to positive difference (outside) – for example ‘Stop making mistakes’ to ‘Be more accurate’; ‘Don’t be lethargic’ to ‘Feel more energetic’. It’s also shifting our focus from ‘what I need
‘The shortest answer is doing’ – George Herbert. What prevents us from doing what we know we need to be doing? Reasons could be many – might need clarity, courage or whatever that it takes. How do we get to ‘doing’, acting-upon things that we keep contemplating for long… The shortest answer is doing.
‘I would place my bet on curiosity’ – Michael Dell, when asked to name the single most important attribute that CEOs need to succeed in turbulent times. Curiosity – that which helps us to explore, listen, be receptive, be open-minded, rejoice… and to enjoy life, and the journey…
What we focus on expands – Anonymous. Whatever I put my focus into, that’s what I get more of. Wouldn’t it make more sense therefore to focus on what I want than what I don’t want? On good than the bad? On positives than the negatives? On solutions than the challenges? It’s my choice –
Thinking about possibilities, than about constraints – former is expansive and the latter, limiting. It’s not that one needs to ignore constraints / challenges for practicing this. It’s thinking beyond them, not about them. Thinking and operating from a ‘possibilities’ perspective uncovers new arenas, potentialities, possibilities…, brings a whole new dimension to our lives, the
‘People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care’ – Theodore Roosevelt. The key difference between individual achievers and great leaders. As a leader, its supremely important to ask this question – how much do I care for others?
Great leaders translate the organisational goals into team members’ personal goals. Inspire their team members to achieve them and make them feel what they do will benefit them and the organisation. Aligning individual, team and organisational goals – How does one get there? Exploration with a Coach could help.